Sometimes what’s going-on in the moment is so overwhelming and activating that we find ourselves in another emotional and mental dimension. It’s scary. And as much as we want to return to “normal,” we just don’t know how. Let’s talk about grounding techniques…
According to PTSD pro Dr. Matthew Tull, grounding is a specific coping strategy designed to, well, ‘ground’ us, immediately establishing a (re)connection with the present moment.
I’ve been there, and I know that when it happens the one and only thing you want to do is get back to “normal” – NOW!
So how are we going to do that? Grounding techniques…
What is grounding?
According to PTSD pro Dr. Matthew Tull, grounding is a specific coping strategy designed to, well, “ground” us, immediately establishing a (re)connection with the present moment. Tull considers grounding a variant of mindfulness.
In addition to reestablishing our connection with the moment, Dr. Tull believes grounding reduces the likelihood of slipping into, say, a dissociative state or a flashback.
He emphasizes that for grounding to be effective the particular technique has to be sufficiently attention-grabbing. But maybe most important of all, the technique becomes easier to do and works faster and better with practice.
Let’s get to our list…
21 grounding techniques to get you back in the moment
As you review the list, please keep in mind that “warm and fuzzy” isn’t always the rule. This is about attention-grabbing, and something “cold and hard” may work better for you.
And notice the techniques may use all five senses, as well as doing things that involve supporting the weight of the body.
Finally, to use some of the techniques you’ll have to have some props readily available.
Here we go…
- Press your feet firmly into the ground, reminding yourself where you are
- Take an inventory of everything around you. Identify the colors, patterns, and styles you see – count the pieces of furniture.
- Touch textures: fabrics, wall coverings, clothing
- Listen to or create music or sounds, especially feeling the vibration
- Hold on to an ice cube or rub it on your skin
- Sniff strong peppermint
- Cut your fingernails
- Bite into a lemon or lime
- Move your hands along the physical outline of your body
- Make your body active: change your position, cross your legs or arms, tap your feet, wiggle your fingers, jump up and down
- Quickly crank-up the volume on whatever you’re listening to
- Run your fingers through your hair, tugging on it every few passes
- Significantly change the temperature of your immediate surroundings
- Get your voice going: call-out your name, read something aloud
- Write or draw, even if it’s purposeless doodling
- Rub, handle, or play with a polished stone, soft or rough piece of cloth, beads, or a chain
- Stretch, massaging specific muscles that you know need to loosen-up
- Put a piece of hard candy or something crunchy in your mouth and do some quick chomping
- Grab a pen and click away to your heart’s content
- Count something: floor or ceiling tiles, cars, people
- Make sustained low-pitched humming noises
So there you have it. Now, that’s only 21 “grounders.” Surely you know there are many more, so find a handful you can rely upon.
That’ll do it
Most anyone enduring PTSD, trauma, an anxiety disorder, depression, or bipolarity knows how scary it is when being in the moment is no longer a happening thing.
And, of course, escaping that otherworldly dimension – NOW – is all that matters.
I encourage you to find grounding techniques that work well for you, and practice the heck of ’em. ‘Cause you just never know when they’ll come in handy…
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